„It’s not how much we give but how much love we put into giving.“; Valentine’s Gift Guide
Okay. So. My best friend said to me a few weeks ago: „Vanessa, please. Make a gift guide. Men are completely lost.“ And I had to laugh because… he’s right. Every year it’s the same drama. Three days before February 14th, mild panic sets in. Suddenly, flower shops are stormed, perfume shelves are plundered, and someone is desperately googling „romantic gift ideas for girlfriend.“ And that’s exactly why I’m creating my Valentine’s gift guide this year.
Not just any guide. But one where you really don’t have to think about anything anymore. I’ll do the work for you. My Valentine’s gift guide is basically the shortcut. And if I’m honest: It won’t be the last. You can expect to see regular Valentine’s Day gift guides, or gift guides in general, here from now on. Because I love beautiful things. And because I know how incredibly convenient it is when someone just says: „Buy this. Trust me.“
Before we start, though, I have to say something…
for HER
Dear men – buying a gift for a woman really isn’t difficult. Really.
We have 500 screenshots on our phones. Products we’ve seen on Instagram. Things we thought, „Oh my god, I need that.“ And then comes the thought, „Okay, next month.“ And then three more months go by. Buying a gift for a woman is actually easier than men think. We’re constantly dropping hints. We send links. We save screenshots. We stop in front of shop windows and say things like, „How beautiful is that?“ You just have to listen. And have the courage to buy exactly what you already want anyway.
That’s where my Valentine’s gift guide comes in. By the way, Valentine’s Day isn’t a competition. It’s not about „who gives the most.“ It’s not about breaking the bank. It’s about a little something. About thoughtfulness. About that feeling when you realize: He or she really thought of me.
So. Save. Read. Order.
Here’s the Valentine’s gift guide – for her.
These are 10 exact things from my Valentine’s gift guide that are sure to be well received.
1. Kylie Jenner's new perfume
This new perfume is exactly the kind of product we constantly see online. Pretty campaign. Aesthetic packaging. And we think to ourselves, „Okay, maybe sometime.“ Valentine’s Day is the perfect „sometime.“
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2. Highlighter from Rare Beauty
That glow. That „I sleep 8 hours and drink 3 liters of water“ finish. That’s exactly what we want. And yes – we really do love makeup.
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3. Glazing Milk by Rhode (Hailey)
If she’s into beauty TikTok, she knows this. It’s this product you see all the time. And that’s exactly why it’s perfect for my Valentine’s Day gift guide.
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4. Pink scent of Sol de Janeiro
This is good vibes in a bottle. Summer. Lightness. And a fragrance you can wear every day.
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5. Pandora charms or jewellery
A small charm is so personal. Perhaps a heart. Perhaps a symbol that only the two of you understand. That’s a gift that will last.
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6. Pyjamas or lounge set from Skims
Skims is that „I still look good at home“ feeling. Cozy, but sexy. And believe me – we love beautiful loungewear.
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7. A pink Polaroid camera
For spontaneous photos. For date nights. For memories that don’t just end up on your phone. And yes – she’ll take your picture right away.
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8. A pink Tangle Teezer
It sounds small, but it’s such an everyday luxury. Things you use daily are often the best gifts.
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See? My Valentine’s gift guide makes it easy. No confusion. No „What if she doesn’t like it?“. These are things she’ll like.
for HIM
And now we come to the part that – in my opinion – is more difficult. The Valentine’s Day gift guide for him.
Let me be honest: Buying gifts for men is more complicated. They’re different. They think differently. They value functionality more, less „Oh my god, how cute!“ But that’s precisely why I deliberately made my Valentine’s Day gift guide so diverse. A little bit of everything. And dear women – you know what suits your man anyway.
Here are the essentials from my Valentine’s gift guide for him.
1. A good perfume
A fragrance is to men what a signature look is to us. It’s instantly associated with a person. Perhaps something fresh for everyday wear or a more intense scent for the evening. Perfume conveys maturity and thoughtfulness – and he’ll think of you every time he wears it.
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2. A watch
A watch instantly changes your image. Even if he’s just wearing jeans and a t-shirt, everything looks more sophisticated. Stainless steel for a clean look or leather for something classic. Watches are timeless – in the truest sense.
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3. A nice pair of pajamas
Men almost never buy themselves a really nice pair of pajamas. Most of the time they just wear some old shirt. That’s precisely why this is a surprisingly good gift. High-quality fabric, a good fit – and suddenly even a cozy Sunday morning looks stylish.
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4. A leather wallet
Black or brown. Minimalist. High-quality leather. A good wallet lasts for years – and is something he handles every day. Practical, yet personal. Believe me he needs a new wallet more than he thinks he does.
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5. A set of Rituals
Self-care – just without feeling like „beauty.“ A shower foam, a good aftershave, maybe a body lotion. Men love it when everything smells good – they would rarely buy it for themselves.
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6. A new belt
So simple. So underrated. A high-quality leather belt is one of those pieces that completes any outfit. And let’s be honest: how long has he been wearing his current one?
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7. A sports bag
Stylish enough for the gym, but also perfect for a weekend trip. A good bag is something you use constantly – and that’s exactly why it makes a great gift.
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8. A minimalist bracelet
Silver or leather. Nothing too flashy. Just a small detail that shows personality. Jewelry on men works best when it’s understated – but with character.
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9. A high-quality pair of sunglasses
A good pair of sunglasses is an instant upgrade. They give you confidence, style, and that „I’ve got my life together“ vibe. And let’s be honest – men keep good sunglasses for years.
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10. Wireless big headphones
For commuting. For the gym. For travel. High-quality wireless headphones are one of those gifts that get used every day. Practical, modern, and something you often put off buying for yourself.
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Gifts for him vs. her
When I put my Valentine’s gift guide for her and my Valentine’s gift guide for him side by side, the differences are immediately apparent. „Her’s“ is much more about feeling, aesthetics, that little flutter in your stomach when you unwrap something you’ve been longing for for weeks. Beauty, loungewear, little details that make everyday life more beautiful. These are things that trigger emotions. Things you might not immediately buy for yourself, even though you want them.
The vibe is different with this Valentine’s Day gift guide for him. More practical. More straightforward. Less „Oh, how pretty,“ more „I’ll actually use this.“ Watches, wallets, belts, gym bags—everything has a purpose. Men often think functionally. They only replace things when they break. That’s precisely why it works to give them something of higher quality than what they would buy for themselves.
So, my Valentine’s Day gift guide is really just stating the obvious: We appreciate aesthetics and emotion—they appreciate quality and utility. And somewhere in between lies the perfect balance.
my summary
And that was it. My Valentine’s Day gift guide for this year. I wanted this Valentine’s Day gift guide to sound less like a catalog and more like a friend telling you, „Just trust me.“ Save this Valentine’s Day gift guide. Share it. Maybe subtly post it in your story. And if you give something from it this year, I’m sure it will be well-received.
Because Valentine’s Day isn’t about pressure.
And maybe that’s exactly the point: not to find the perfect gift, but to choose something and give it thoughtfully. With a smile. With a „I saw this and thought of you.“ That’s precisely what my Valentine’s Day gift guide is for—a little reminder that thoughtfulness is always the most beautiful gift.
It’s a little reminder. To remember that we see each other. To remember that we are thoughtful.
And that love is sometimes found in the simplest things. And that’s exactly what my Valentine’s Day gift guide is for.
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