Welcome to my very own wishlist for October 2025!
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October. My absolute favorite month. Not just because it’s my birthday – quite coincidentally (shocking, I know), but because the whole month has its own magic for me. This cozy weather, which invites you to snuggle up, but at the same time brings with it a seductive vibe – sexy and mysterious, almost like a scene from a movie. That’s exactly what I’m passionate about: this feeling that only October can create. And somehow, it’s also the month in which I feel most „myself.“ Maybe it’s because you’re not constantly sweating like in summer, but you’re not yet immersed in the gray winter.
For me, October is the perfect balance between slowing down and that gentle spark in the air—as if something exciting could be waiting around every corner. This is exactly the mood I wanted to capture when I compiled my wishlist.
1. The perfect tights
Yes, I know – it might sound trite. But anyone who’s ever had to stumble through an evening in imperfect tights (hello, ladders?) knows that they can make all the difference. I swear by Calzedonia’s styles year after year. But I’m also a fan of Saint Sass – they not only fit perfectly, they also have that certain something. Elegant, high-quality, and somehow empowering. Going out without tights in October? Forget it.
…layering, but sexy.
The weather calls for layering, but sexy. Tights are my secret tip for instantly elevating any outfit—whether worn with a dress, a leather skirt, or even under an oversized sweater. And let’s be honest: tights aren’t just „practical“; they set the mood. Shiny, matte, patterned, or plain—every detail tells a story about the look and the mood of the evening. That’s why the perfect tights are at the top of my October wish list—because they’re the key to every look.
2. Leather-look skirts
October without a leather look? Absolutely impossible. Skirts in black or dark brown, whether short and sassy or midi-length and classy – they’re simply the perfect combination of sexy and sophisticated. I love how you can create so many different looks with them: by day with boots and a sweater, by night with heels and red lipstick. This material has something wicked, something confident. It’s not „I’m trying to be cool,“ it’s „I am.“ That’s exactly the feeling I need in October.
„bad girl“ aura
Plus, the leather look never really goes out of style – every year it appears in new cuts and adapts to the trends. What I love about it is that you can instantly create a „bad girl“ aura with a simple leather skirt without it being too much. Especially in autumn, when you play with textures – knitwear, leather, satin – you create a look that feels deeper than a simple summer outfit. That’s why this skirt is a firm fixture on my October wishlist.
3. Burgundy-Vibes
When I think of October, I automatically think of dark red. Maybe it’s because it’s Halloween, maybe because the color simply has a mystical and magical feel—but for me, burgundy is like pumpkin is to pumpkin spice. My three favorites? A cozy knit sweater in a rich red wine shade. A satin midi dress that screams, „Take me out for a drink.“ A pair of heels that instantly transform any basic outfit into a real eye-catcher.
It´s a statement.
Dark red is simply more than just a color. It’s a statement. It’s „I own this room.“ Moreover, the color has a completely different effect depending on the fabric: velvet makes it dramatic, satin makes it sexy, and wool brings cozy vibes. It’s precisely the play with this tone that makes October exciting for me. Burgundy is like an accessory for the soul—it instantly adds depth, glamour, and a hint of danger. That’s why burgundy pieces are absolute must-haves on my October wish list.
4. Cozy Sweater
in Brown & Beige
Okay, I admit it: October is sweater month for me. I love snuggling up in big, soft sweaters, preferably in warm earth tones. Beige, camel, brown – colors that immediately scream autumn, but don’t look kitschy. They can be paired with anything – jeans, a leather skirt, tights – and make any outfit cozy without making you look like you’re about to fall into bed.
Pro tip: An oversized sweater plus a miniskirt and boots = the ultimate October outfit. And honestly, there’s nothing better than spending an evening on the couch in an oversized sweater, yet still feeling like you could go out at any moment. These sweaters are the definition of „versatile“ for me. They can suddenly become dinner-appropriate with a necklace and high heels, or totally casual with sneakers and a messy bun. That’s why they’re definitely on my October wishlist.
5. Classic boots
with a small heel
October calls for boots. But this time, not chunky boots, but classic boots with a small heel. They’re feminine, elegant, and super comfortable—perfect for wearing all day without dying of pain. For me, these boots are the epitome of everyday luxury: a shoe that instantly makes any outfit look more grown-up, whether with a skirt, dress, or skinny jeans.
The small heel makes them special without requiring you to balance on a 10-centimeter heel. I love how they bridge the gap between a cozy everyday look and a sexy evening outfit. They’re a must-have for my October wishlist because they combine style and comfort—and let’s be honest, that’s exactly the perfect combo for this month.
6. The quilted jacket
cool British-style
No autumn is complete without the right piece of outerwear. Instead of a trench coat, however, a cool quilted jacket in an English-Scottish style is on my wishlist this year. It has that country-chic feel that immediately conjures up images of strolls through autumn fields with a cup of hot tea in your hand. I have to admit, this year I’ve been completely taken with the English countryside and its style, including all those horses.
Best in muted colors like olive, dark brown, or navy, with small details like a corduroy collar or checked lining. These jackets are not only warm and practical, but also bring that „London meets Highlands“ vibe to everyday life. I love how classy they look, yet casual enough to wear every day. On my October wish list, they’re the perfect piece for all those days when you commute between city and nature.
7. Mascara Magic
Lipstick or not—for me, nothing beats the perfect mascara in October. There are countless mascaras, but only a few that truly deliver on their promises. I’ve tried many, but three favorites have won me over time:
…make my eyes sparkle
Sweed’s mascara (for incredible length), Too Faced’s legendary Better Than Sex mascara (for dramatic volume), and Charlotte Tilbury’s (for that sophisticated, defined look). These three deserve to be on my wishlist every time because they instantly make my eyes sparkle—even on gray October days.
But if you want to know what the perfect lips would be in autumn, you should definitely check out my blog post Kiss the Season.
8. Cool candle holders
Finally, an item that rounds out my October wish list: candle holders. Not the boring classic versions, but cool, eye-catching designs that are almost works of art. I recently saw one on Instagram that looked like liquid gold was trickling down it—so beautiful, classy, and mysterious at the same time.
Pieces like these instantly turn a simple candlelit dinner into an experience. They’re that special something that transforms a room into a stage. For me, candlesticks aren’t just decorations; they’re little magical moments that add the perfect touch to October. They’re a must-have on my wish list this year.
Westwing – gold – Art.nr. DEQ23POL13316-195512 -> Link
my summary
For me, October isn’t a normal month—it’s a way of life. A mix of cozy Sundays, seductive nights, and that very special magic that hangs in the air. My wishlist reflects exactly that: from tights to quilted jackets, from classic boots to mascara magic and mystical candlesticks. Cozy, sexy, magical—just how October should be. And if you ask me, these are exactly the vibes that not only help you survive autumn, but enjoy it to the fullest.
And perhaps that’s exactly what fascinates me so much about October: that it unites so many opposites. On the one hand, it’s cozy—sweaters, tea, rainy evenings. On the other hand, it brings with it that sparkle, that slightly dangerous, sexy feeling you only experience in this month. My wishlist is therefore not just a shopping list, but rather a collection of feelings, moods, and moments that I want to capture for myself.
In the end, it’s all about creating little highlights for yourself—pieces that make us feel good and perfectly reflect the mood of this month. October comes once a year, but with the right wishlist, it feels like it could last forever.
So, what would you buy from your wishlist?
Xoxo, Vanessa
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